At times we create our own memories and even take someone else on that trip with us. They become our comrade without ever knowing it. That’s why one can never totally remove oneself from someone’s life. The memories created together can be taken along (by poisoning them for instance) but the ‘unshared ones’ remain with the one who created them. One day you open a drawer and find things you have bought while creating a memory of a day that you didn’t live.